How To Impress A Girl: The #1 rule!

So, you want to know how to impress a girl?

There’s a very important rule that you should know in order to impress any girl that you like. It’s also a very simple rule. Just follow it and you’ll impress any girl at any place at any time.

Ready for the rule?

Do not try to impress her.

I mean it. Don’t even try. She knows when you’re trying to impress her. You’re bumbling over your proclamations of a great salary, an awesome car, a huge house, blah, blah, blah.  Maybe you’re pulling over your shirt and showing her your rockin’ abs. Or you’re handing over a box of chocolates to her with a silly grin on your face. She’s zoning out and thinking about the pair of heels that she saw at the mall today.

Wait, what about that funny joke? Maybe you’ll tell it, and she’ll laugh, and touch your biceps… No. Don’t tell your joke, no matter how funny it is, if your only goal is to impress her. She’ll be able to tell and she won’t be impressed.

Still trying to figure how to impress a girl? Itching to try out a new pick-up line? Maybe something about her beautiful eyes or her beautiful body or her beautiful hair or her beautiful… She’s heard it all, and she’s still not impressed. An overly flattering compliment isn’t going to impress her at all.

Trust me, a woman knows that you’re just after one thing when you’re trying too hard. She knows it and she isn’t impressed.

Even worse, she might take advantage of you.

Paris Hilton said this: “Every woman should have four pets in her life. A mink in her closet, a jaguar in her garage, a tiger in her bed, and a jackass who pays for everything.”

Try your best to impress a girl and you might end up getting her attention at first, but you’ll be just the jackass who pays for everything and gets nothing.

So, if you’re not supposed to impress her, how exactly should you even begin to approach a girl and get her to date you?

How To Impress A Girl – the technique

David Deangelo, a dating expert, has given loads of advice over the years about dating girls and how to impress a girl. He suggests that men try to approach women with indifference. Yes, indifference.

A few more tips from David:

- Act like you already know that the girl is into you.

- Be a little arrogant and a little cool.

- Tease her.

- After all, there are a lot of girls out there. If one girl doesn’t work out, you move on to the next girl. You have nothing to lose.

- Be confident (or at least ACT like it) and don’t give her all of your power.

- Be very calm and comfortable.

David claims that you give away your power when you try too hard. A girl doesn’t want your power, so why give it away?

David gave a great example on how to impress a girl on his website – if a girl asks you what you do for a living, instead of bragging about your job and how you’ll be promoted soon, tease her by saying you’re a stunt man who stands in for actors when they need to be naked. She’ll laugh, and ask you what you really do. You continue to claim that you have that job, with a grin on your face. She’s immediately interested. And, dare I say, impressed by you. And you didn’t even try.

She’ll remember you. She’ll think about you. Then she’ll try to impress YOU.

That’s how to impress a girl. It’s as simple as that.

When a guy tires too hard to impress a girl, he usually becomes nervous and self-conscious. He might stumble over his words and laugh nervously. These things AREN’T ATTRACTIVE to a woman. They’re big turn-offs.

Don’t get me wrong, girls do like it when you pay for dates or make her laugh (or even better, do both). Just don’t try too hard when you do these things. Act cool. Be confident. You’re a great guy and if she doesn’t see that, that’s her problem. You have to think that way. Your thoughts will then affect your actions, and then she’ll think to herself, “What a confident guy. Maybe there’s something there…”

And then you’ve got her interest. The rest is up to you.

Here’s a challenge for you. In the following three days, approach a girl at a bar or a party or at a bookstore, wherever you prefer. Act confident and start a conversation with her about anything. Be nonchalant. Be indifferent. Be a little arrogant. Then report back and tell us how it worked out for you.

So, how to impress a girl? Become a MAN women naturally want to be around